Three Common Objections to Election Addressed – ReformationTheology.com
There seem to be so many non-Calvinists that have these three objections (amongst many) against election; that it:
1) Makes God an arbitrary dictator
2) Destroys personal responsibility
3) Eliminates the motivation to evangelize the lost.
I believe Nathan from ReformationTheology.com does a really good job of responding to these objections, and does so in a godly, non-standoffish way.
Here’s another resource, an excerpt from Wayne Grudem’s Systematic Theology entitled, “Misunderstandings of the Doctrine of Election.” – Very good.